CRY ME A RIVER

This weekend a friend and I were texting, and the subject of sensitivity came up. I've already recently admitted to you guys that I'm a crier, so it naturally follows that I'm quite sensitive, perhaps moreso than your average bear. My friend, also a writer, admitted that she is sensitive too.

Could it be true that most creative types are more deeply sensitive? Considering how much brutal rejection and criticism exists in the writing world, or in any world where you expose your soul for everyone to see, it presents an interesting paradox.

Prior to becoming a writer, I did door-to-door sales. Quit laughing! I also did tons of phone calls and was required to make 25 contacts per day. Talk about learning to handle rejection. The thing I learned that stands out most is that rejection really isn't personal. It's not about me. I think God was preparing me for what was to come. Still, no matter how freakishly thick my skin grew to be, the rejection I face now as a writer is much more personal than when I was selling stocks and bonds. But if I'd never had that experience, I imagine I'd have only lasted through the first few rejections from agents and editors before chucking the whole gig.

I'm curious whether or not you fall into the "deeply sensitive" camp, and maybe a bit of how you handle the rejection/criticism that is likely part of your journey as a creative type.